Biggest Mistake in Our Life

Hei, Hei, Hei, I'm back. I know you're not miss me, but I'm sorry, I really miss myself :) Actually, this article is for my english task. But, my lecturer didn't say that we not allowed to publish the article. So, I will publish it. Oh, I really want to do that haha. So, here it is.


Biggest Mistake in Our Life

What do you think about fear? Terrify? Horrible? Frightening? That's what you thinking about fear? No, it is not. Fear is when you see all off the bad things that might be happened in your life.

Let's make an analogy about this. There is a wall, a beautiful wall, compose of a hundred bricks which neatly arranged. It is a perfect wall. But, accidently you see two of one hundred bricks sloppily arrenged, two ugly bricks. This ugly bricks ruined the entire beautiful wall. And then, what will you say?  You will say, "Oh God, this is terrible wall." That is what you thinking about fear. You just focus at two ugly bricks and omit another ninty eight beautiful bricks. That's what happened in our life.

When we want to do something new in our life, something that we never try before, what do we feel? We feel scared, unconfident, nervous, then all of the bad things that might be happened crossed our mind. And we will say, "I can't do that." This is the biggest mistake in our life.

Why? It is because of that fear makes us unwilling to step up. We don't have passion anymore, we are not feel excited anymore, all our feeling is only that fear, we don't want to do that, never in our life. So, we just waste the chance to do "that something new" and we will never be level up. And when we see another person doing "that something new", and it works, all we can think about is why i didn't do it before. Now, we realize that it's all late.

So, what should we do? All we have to do is never thinking about our scared, just throw away our fears, think about all of the possitive things, and say, "I can do that, I have to do that." And when we did it, all off our feeling is just relieved, we feel like all of our burden life fall out. And of course, we will never regret it. Then, what wonderful thing might be happened? We know. We know that all of the bad things we thought before is never happened, it's all just our thinking. Then when we want to try another something new, we will never scared anymore. All we can think is just, "I can do that, definetily."  Then we do it again, again, and again. Because we know, nothing gonna happen, it's just fine



Reference :
Brahm, Ajahn. 2016. Si Cacing dan Kotoran Kesayangannya. Awareness Publication: Jakarta.

P.s : Actually I've review that book in my blog, just click here. And I've write about fear in here.

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